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Are you waiting for the perfect moment to start something important?

We've all been there—waiting for the stars to align, hoping for everything to be flawless before we take action. In this episode of Recounting Life Lessons, Alana dives deep into the concept of permission to be imperfect.

It's time to break free from the shackles of perfectionism. When we wait for everything to be "just right," we end up stuck in a cycle of procrastination and self-doubt. But what if imperfection is the key to success? In this episode, we share how embracing the messy, imperfect steps is often the path to progress, connection, and growth. 

Tune in to hear how shifting your mindset and giving yourself permission to be imperfect can boost your confidence, productivity, and results. She covers powerful insights that will change the way you approach goals, challenges, and even setbacks in your personal and professional life.

Listen now to learn how to break free from perfectionism and take action with confidence

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5 Success Principles for Embracing Imperfection and Taking Action

Struggling with perfectionism or finding it harder to take action? These 5 success principles can be applied to help you stop waiting for the "perfect" moment and start making consistent progress—even when you don't feel completely ready. 

  • Focus on Progress, Not Perfection: Many of us believe that every project or goal must be perfect to be worthy of attention. But in reality, progress is the real measure of success. Aim for small wins that accumulate over time, rather than waiting for the flawless execution. This is key to making meaningful, sustained progress in any area of life.
  • Embrace the Power of Messy Action: If you're stuck in analysis paralysis, know that messy action beats no action at all. Start doing—imperfectly, but consistently. Each action, no matter how small, leads to growth, learning, and new opportunities.
  • Learn from Every Mistake: Mistakes are often seen as setbacks, but they are invaluable lessons. Every failure teaches you something new that moves you closer to your end goal. Instead of fearing failure, embrace it as part of your growth journey.
  • Confidence Comes Through Consistency, Not Perfection: Confidence doesn't appear overnight—it's built through consistent action, even if that action is imperfect. The more you do something, the more you learn, adjust, and improve, which ultimately boosts your confidence.
  • Take Small, Imperfect Steps Towards Big Goals: Starting small and embracing imperfection allows you to gain momentum and build confidence. By taking those first steps, you begin the process of growth, improvement, and eventual mastery. 
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Main Takeaways & golden nuggets from "permission to be imperfect"

Now that we've covered those core principles, let's dive into the main takeaways from this episode that will help you put the theory into practice.

  • Perfectionism Keeps You Stuck: The truth is, perfectionism is a form of procrastination. It's easy to feel like you need everything to be perfect before you take action. But this mindset actually keeps you from moving forward. The first takeaway is to break the cycle by allowing yourself to take imperfect action.
  • Messy Action is Powerful Action: You don't need to have everything figured out before you start. Whether it's a new project, business venture, or personal goal, the key is to start, even if it's messy. Progress happens in motion, not in the planning phase.
  • Mistakes Are Opportunities to Learn: Each time you stumble or fail, you gain valuable feedback. Instead of seeing mistakes as failures, reframe them as opportunities to learn and improve.
  • People Connect with Authenticity, Not Perfection: Your audience, clients, and community are more likely to connect with you when you're authentic, vulnerable, and real. Let go of the need to present yourself as perfect and instead embrace your true self—flaws and all.
  • Confidence Builds Through Action: The more you act, the more confident you become. Confidence isn't something you wait for; it's something you build through doing, failing, learning, and growing. The key is to take action, even when you don't feel fully ready.

If you find yourself feeling stuck and you're not making progress in your growth or towards your goals, think to yourself, how can I take relentless, imperfect, action to move me forward.

 For an in-depth exploration of these takeaways and more, be sure to listen to the full episode below.

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Tips for applying these takeaways:

Want to apply these insights to your life? Here are some actionable steps you can take today:

  • Pick One Area to Start Taking Imperfect Action: Is there something you've been putting off because you're waiting for the perfect conditions? Whether it's launching a project, writing a blog post, or starting a conversation, pick one area to take messy action today.
  • Reframe Failure as Feedback: When you make a mistake, pause and ask yourself, "What can I learn from this?" Rather than beating yourself up, use every setback as an opportunity to grow and get better.
  • Set Small, Achievable Goals: Instead of aiming for a perfect result, set small, achievable goals. Each small win will build your confidence and help you keep moving forward, even if things aren't perfect. 

 Listen now to if you're ready to stop letting perfectionism keep you stuck!

final thoughts: embrace imperfection

Perfectionism can be paralyzing, but embracing imperfection is the first step toward real progress. The more you give yourself permission to be messy and imperfect, the closer you get to the person you want to become. 

Remember, perfection isn't the goal—growth and action are. Take that first step today, and don't let the fear of imperfection hold you back. It's in the doing, the failing, and the learning that you'll find your true power and success. Together, we can all break free from perfectionism and start living as empowered heroes!

Stay tuned for more inspiring episodes as we and people from all walks of life share their experiences and we identify the lessons, blessings, and success principles that life is providing—lessons that we can all take advantage of and learn from if we pay attention.

​If you're ready to step into your full potential, make sure to listen to the episode and share it with someone who could benefit from this powerful message. And don't forget to subscribe to Recounting Life Lessons and jump onto our Insider email list for more insights, actionable tips, and empowering stories.

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We are Sione & Alana

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We're a married couple from Hawaii who are now living in Vancouver, Washington.

Two things that we are passionate about are:

1) Uncovering  the success principles and life lessons that help us all grow into our best selves.

Our favorite ways to uncover success principles and life lessons are by sharing stories from our own adventures and interviewing inspiring guests from all walks of life on our podcast.

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We take special care to craft the programs and resources we create, in a way, that keeps things simple and easy to follow-through on.

​Through our blog, podcast, courses, and programs, we aim to empower you to grow into your best self, live with purpose, and make a meaningful impact on the world around you. 

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